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Q. Hi......... I am gay and can't tell this to anyone. I am 27 and still virgin. Kindly tell how to get out of this conflict.

First off there is nothing wrong with being a virgin... it means you are careful and dont abuse or disrespect your body!
An aunt of mine used to say,”instead of having sex at once, have it at last!”
There is nothing wrong about being gay... first get that... then slowly you can talk about it to people who you are close to, you may be surprized that they may have just the person for you:)
Gay people like “normal” people also want a mate in life... Do talk to a few people you know and trust... take that leap...
Best of Luck...
Jai Gurudeva!


Q. i just attended my first YES!+ course which was held in nagpur,it was a gr8 experience,never felt the magic of breathing before....last week....ur talk was really enlightening....i wanted to talk to you there in person,cud not get that oppurtunity,maybe next time....

i've this small problem,which is spoiling my relations with others,too...this girl,she was my girlfriend before,and we went out for some 8 months,and then as parents started interfering it was best that we break up...,so we did tht...and later after 4 days she goes out with my best friend,oh...tht was bad,i cud not believe it at first....thn i thought both of them were cheap and it would be best to ignore her,as i wont meet her agn in my lyf......fine...tht was whn i was in school in 11th and 12th....,


now i'm in college....and it happened tht my frend is doin medicine in coimbatore,and she....this female is in my college,my branch,my class.....oh i never wanted this....to happen.....

why only she,....ok....i took it in the right spirit and i thought tht i would jst be friends with her....,told her to 4get whatever happened in the past and 4get it....,went on like tht for sometime...bt behind my back she was back biting me,she was telling all her friends here,tht..we did not go out...and all tht bull shit....clear back biting and ppl believe whn a woman says something...(bt i learned never to trust a woman)...,at the same time i was losing my friends bcoz of her,my image was going down becoz of her...wht shld i do,....

whn we had our dept gathering in college,obviously i took pics in my phone....and later on the last day....whn we had our dj nite,seniors wanted to rag me....in b/w she comes and asks for my phone,i did not say no...after seniors had their fun on me...i was feeling bad,...and whn i get my phone bak...i find tht most of the pics were deleted...i asked her y did she delete the pics,she says i don't need any of my pics in ur phone...wowee,i thought we were friends..,tht bitch....i made it a point tht she and my relation will never get close agn....i tried after tht max not to interact with her...

almost for a whole semester we never interacted and wht was happening the friends who were together with,started going away from me....bcoz of her...they preffered her..more...,i did not giv shit abt tht....

wht happened actually is tht,bcoz of her,...i've lost my image,friends.. in college...whre in the beginning i was known....and popular....,very good to people...now .....its jst the opposite,....

....is there a solution to this....

You know if there are people who would rather listen to slander and gossip and believe that... its far far better you are away from such people, and that those people are not your friends... who would want such friends anyways?!
Get involved in Art of Living Seva... Do your Sadhana regularly and go for Satsang and you will find many many people who are much better than those people who you are missing so much to become good friends with!


Q. hi bawa i am from baroda , i am 21 years old. i met you in surat...bawa as we discussed over there... you clearly told to leave the 6000 rs. per month job and start study further or start your business(travel agency). ... you also said that start studying along with your job..
so bawa if i want to study further than i should go with what MBA finance or marketing... in market, specially gujarat and maharastra market ..should i study with finamce or marketting or any other streem... i can make my self with all the things... but i want to mold my self in such a way.. so that i can earn good money.. and should i continue doing working or i should go further with full time study....

Its your life... you have to take these decisions... and face the consequences... Neither me nor Guruji is here to live your life for you... Can definitely guide you or point you in the direction of someone who can guide you... (which i did in Surat) but please do not ask me questions like this... they are for you to answer!


Q. I attended the last day of Utsav,Nagpur today and i Really felt relaxed when i returned home.
I wanted to ask you one question...
I had a fight with my best friend some days ago,and the topic was that i donot advice her when she is wrong.
I'm kind of person who dont like to interfere in other's personal matter though that person matters for me the most.
So am i really doing wrong or should i be the way i am?

She is right, if she is your best friend, its only right that you interfere gently and tell her that what she is doing is wrong... and then let her take her own decisions and still stand by her as her friend with whatever she has decided... but to not tell her and allow her to make a mistake is simply being a little cruel and selfish! at least thats my opinion:)