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Thursday, September 11, 2008

Start Living!

Somehow i don't want to premier the site on 9/11

At 6:15 am on the 12th of September, we will unveil the new site... I have already written the last post... and it's scheduled to appear here at this time... Why this time? Well... let's just say it's a very special time for me :)

Meanwhile here is a superb thingie i wrote...

Q: Do we all need someone in our life to make us feel happy? cant we be happy all by ourselves ? i mean its not necessary that everyone finds the right person so does it mean that he/she should wait for that person to come in our lives and make us feel happy or can we be happy in the absence of anybody?

A: As long as you have Guruji in your life, you don’t really need anyone else :). However, if you have another person in your life, who shares the same love that you do for Guruji, for the Knowledge, for Seva, Sadhana and Satsang, then both of you can pull each other up and such a relationship can be an asset for you, and the other person.

People who need people for their happiness become like parasites to each other. Possessiveness, guilt, anger follow very quickly and annihilate whatever love that might have been there. You can’t stay alone by yourself and be happy, you are bored... So you go out and bore some others... Don’t feel too bad, even they are the same... Majority of the people are like that: disturbed, bored, not at peace and not comfortable with themselves. And they want to inflict their company on others who are more or less in the same boat... This sadness we term as society!

You need to be whole and complete by yourself. And the other person needs to be the same too... Actually, there's nothing to do except have the realization that you already are indeed whole and complete... Then you don’t need each other to have a fulfilling life experience, but, if you are together, then you complement each other and true enchantment happens!



Instead of having the usual check list for your “perfect” person... Start making yourself eligible for that person! See what are the things you need to be, so that you can become a “perfect” match for someone else :)

And you will see that that person will magically appear for you! This “right” person may already be there for you in your life...

When the Guru steps into your life... Things change... Wisdom, Love, Peace and Happiness dawn. At last you are utterly comfortable being you! And like a brilliant light, you bring life and brightness wherever you go... Finally you stop asking the question What about me? What about me?

You become eligible for truly satisfying, wonderful relationships.

You start Living!

Jai Gurudeva!
love
bawa  

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45 comments:

aparna said...

Instead of having the usual check list for your “perfect” person... Start making yourself eligible for that person! See what are the things you need to be, so that you can become a “perfect” match for someone else :)

They are golden words!!

U Rock Bawa

Jai Gurudev!

6:15 12th ??? i sure can wait for another day!! :)

atmarati avirodhena said...

finally you stop asking the question,"what about me?"...:):)

bau your words bring such quietness in the mind .. leaves me feeling very blessed and all blissed out

Abhi said...

Perfect crystallization of the unstated subtle into words !

Random Reflections said...

beautiful Bawa ! have been having the same thoughts for some time now. Guruji says in a knowledge tape (not verbatim) " "get married only for the growth of the other person" .

Jai Guru Dev,

arun rajkumar said...

A true gem of a post!

sangeeta said...

thank you so much,Bau....I really needed this knowledge today......Perfectly timed for me ..... its such a miracle Guruji gives me what I need at the right time!!!!!
Jai gurudev

Tej said...

it's brilliant bau! there's really no other way to look at relationships having read this.. :) Jai Gurudev.

Sourav N Gourav said...

I know why have you choosen 12th september and 6.15am. it's your birthday isin't it? So in advance A very happy bday to you bawa..miss you and congratulation(advance) on your new blog design..take care!

gunjan said...

Bawa,
You are awesome. :)

Uday Sanganeria said...

awesome post :) loved it

jgd :)

Adolphout said...

This is so true Bawa.. You may or may not get married, but it always makes sense to groom your self so that your perfect soulmate would want to marry you. And then, even if they are not there in your life right now, you just know they will come when the time is right.

Nanddeep said...

Very useful. Thanks!

Shruti Poojari said...

amazing,...........amazinggggggggg...
feeling blissed out bau...
thanq 4 posting such wonderful knowledge...
thanq so much bau.....

jgd....!!!!!!

komal said...

" As long as you have Guruji in your life, you don’t really need anyone else :)." how very true .. its really the thought i cling onto here in sydney....mm so the new blog will have podcasts how wonderful.. am really looking fwd to the new one.... cant wait for 2morro...

Abhay Karnataki said...

so true!

I have started working on myself, listing the things I should be like, rather than the criteria for someone else.

Ajay said...

Hi Bau

Beautiful article...so true.
If Guruji is there, what else do we need.

Jai Gurudev
'J'

Prakirtee said...

Bawa this is so rightly said. With Guruji in our lives, things just happen .. so beautiful life becomes. You're the best :) love you

Vishal said...

awesome .. !! :)

Niyati said...

Its 2:41am and I cant tell you how helpful this post has been...Now I can peacefully go back to reading for my literature class...

Thanks a lot!!!

Jai Gurudev!

Anonymous said...

Dear Bau, I have been doing exactly what you said. making myself eligible for this Perfect Person... getting a confirmation from u assures what I'm doing is right and shall bring more energy, enthusiasm, sincerity and seriousness with which I shall strive to become eligible, now.
Thank u so much.
U make a perfect Writer... who knows when, what is required by the readers.

Jai Gurudev
Love

Sakshi Batra said...

Perfect Bau...











...what else?

You make a wonderful writer.
Jai Gurudev
Love
Sakshi

virendra said...

Dear bawu,
yees...im d 1st 1 2 comment on ur post :)
superb knowledge bawu..i was d person who used 2 seek frnds 2 hang on with..i always used 2 seek company for being happy..n if i dont get ne1 who wud really b with me then i used 2 get sad...i used 2 feel im not loving n all..same situation had come in my life few wks bak..i wanted 2 come out of it..i read some of d gurujis knldg sheet n suddenly wisdom dawn on me...same thing wht u said in this blog...its gr8 really helps like nething..now i can b happy without ne reason without ne1..
i think i have started living (bcoz of ART OF LIVING obvsly :) )

Arnav said...

A very sweet post BAU,and of course there is no denying once GURU enters our lives things revolutionise from GOOD to BETTER and to the BEST :)
JAI GURUDEVA!!!!

avadhesh said...

nice n interesting. i wl say it like : having Guru ji adds life to ur lifestyle

Anonymous said...

dear bawa,
indeed, when guru is their in ur life u dont need anyone else; also feel at the same time if you can find the person; who has the same goal;i dont think there is anything wrong;
thanks for answering my question.......................

Anonymous said...

Very True. Very, Very True. I cannot agree more with this. I have experienced this myself.

hamsa_tachyon said...

Jai Gurudev,

just wanted you to know .. i've been reading your blog 'most right from the start .. and have got more from it than you can imagine .. mightn't be able to make it on time to the "premiere" of the new one, but i'll be there in spirit for sure !

A very beautiful post (your best ? but then i keep thinking each latest offering is your best! :) - its straight from the heart ! and brought me to tears .. if i could make a wish, it would be that i'd been better educated earlier in this as in all other issues .. but as you remind us, with the Guru in one's life, .. and who knows, "This "right" person may already be there for you in your life" !

love .. and Jai Gurudeva !

Pradnya wagh said...

thats sooooo wonderfully said........loved it!! :)
Thank you so much!
Wanted to hear this TODAY only........
Thanx once again!

Jatin Manaktala said...

its jst d perfect words bau... i was d 1 who use to find d same thng in my life bt since i hav got guruji i dont think i m nw dependent on ne1.... like for example today i went to my facualty to check my port folio.. she had used very harsh words for me in march n told me tht my folio is utterly bad... bt i knew its nt.. i failed in march n had to submit d folio in oct so i did it nw... i took d same folio today n in d mornin i told guruji to b wid me n let me clecr this time with listenin to ne thng.. n u know wht today d same facualty for d same port folio is tellin me tht JATIN YOUR WORK HAS IMPROVED...... n i was smiling.. tht's d magic of believing in guruji....

love
jatin

Monica said...

waow Bau :)
well said :)
love you :)

shikha said...

jgd bawa....

what a wonderful knowledge jst at the right time for me...i have been going through tough times myself lately...it was of great help...thanks for all the love and help

samwisegamchi said...

Jai Gurude Bau

Well i really m in a jiffy....wat u wrote in 2days blog is the answer that i wanted bout wat i was thinkin the whole day....2day is my ex-gf birthday and i was thinkin all that u wrote in the blog....its simply amazin how guruji takes care of evryone.....


Thanx Bau

Priya said...

Bawa... this was just amazing!!! It so beautiful when u said that we should start making myself eligible for that perfect person! I mean thats sooo true.. There are no words for this..

hariharan said...

i think u have chosen the time because its the time u were born on 12th september.
Beautifully written post.
JGD Bau

Sudha Pillai said...

A most powerful message .. out there...expressed so exquisitely!

Thanks, Bawa! Take care. Jgd.

Sudha

Anonymous said...

jgd...
lovely post :))

Niranjana said...

I have started living. I have guru in my life.naaaaaaahh.... I always had but it took some time to realize.
Jai gurudeva:)

Anonymous said...

i am tempted to ask bau, why the time 6:15?? :)

Srivi said...

muahahaahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...finally I know!!!!!...thank you bau:-)..love you..cant wait for 6.15am!!!

Jo!! said...

thank you so much for this!
this is soo soo good!

i just looove it!

amazing!

Namrata said...

LOVED IT!!

specially the lines ...

"However, if you have another person in your life, who shares the same love that you do for Guruji, for the Knowledge, for Seva, Sadhana and Satsang, then both of you can pull each other up and such a relationship can be an asset for you, and the other person"

Thank You so much :)
Lotsa Love..

Sonali Rao said...

Amazing......

Sonali Rao said...

He answers all our prayers with the best Gurudev rocks!!!

Anonymous said...

thnks bau for this precouis knowledge.....tat was wat i relly wantd 2 knw.......thnks a lot bau.......

Stutii said...

Wow!
The checklist idea is brilliant... and yea it actually makes sense.. the more you give the more it somehow manages to come back to you automatically.
YES plus is over--Its sad that won't get to see everyone tomorrow. Yet feel so lucky and blessed to be there.
Guruji's grace it is!
You guys are awesome!
Jai Gurudev

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